Gaslighting, My Understanding Of It.


Gas lighting is the process by which you rob your spouse of their understanding of reality, at this tumultuous point in your relationship your sense of reality is strained to begin with. (You have accused, she has denied.) It is possible at this point if you are an expert at gaslighting to remove entirely your spouse’s handle on who they are and their understanding of reality. When you bent over your office desk for your office cock that was not your greatest sin, that you reserved for when you systematically and diligently set out to remove your spouse’s, (at this stage,) tenuous grasp on all that made him human by deny, deny, deny. To disengage someone from their life long understanding of who they are is a gross act of cowardice and the greatest sin you can commit within your relationship. Integrity, a good life, and a peaceful passing require guts. A confession suggests the possibility of forgiveness.

Whilst gaslighting is not gender specific, the results are. Women tend to eventually believe the lies they spout, hence the sincerity with which they can lie. Men however never believe the lies they spout, this being a weakness that a smart women can exploit in her search for the truth.

The origins of gas lighting; Little Johnny/Jane is playing in the kitchen alone, he/she breaks a cup, mummy/daddy comes running, “Johnny/Jane did you break that cup?” “No” comes the reply. “Johnny/Jane did you break that cup?” Again, “No” This goes on until Johnny/Jane eventually confesses then he/she gets his/her slap. Little Johnny/Jane soon realizes that the slap never came until the confession. The lesson they learn; never confess no matter how damning the evidence.



About bigsyrb

I am creative and artistic but live in the real world. I possess compassion, charity, and nobility when required. My education is as eclectic as my prose. I have travelled the world and remember Mount Kilimanjaro when it had snow on its peak. I can gently remove the stitches from a sleeping child’s forehead to save him the trauma of a return visit to the ER, and I can outrun a hippo when the occasion calls for it. I love and respect my parents; I love and respect my children, I love and respect myself. I believe in true women’s emancipation, and Germaine Greer is a fraud. Ethics, honesty, and integrity are at their best when no one is looking. I have good teeth; and in my view attractive feet. A bowl of thin cold gruel takes on prodigious gastronomic proportions when you haven’t eaten in ten years, and takeout somehow leaves you hungry. I am looking to fulfill a need and will search to the end of my days if need be. Last book read, Conrad Black, A Matter of Principle. My favorite authors; D.H.Lawrence, Susan Sontag, Darwin, W.Somerset Maugham, Stephen Pinker. The next book I read will be The Corrections, by Jonathan Franzen. My last three sculptures, Ayatollah Khomeini, Dead Horse, an English Coalman, working on many more. A neophile by nature who believes unconditional love is a hostage situation. My sense of humor never lets me down in this sometimes painful world and I don't blow away in a light storm.
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