Never underestimate the therapeutic benefits of revenge. Only after you have exacted your revenge should you consider forgiveness. I understand the desire for revenge can at times be caustic, corrosive, and self-destructive, however revenge can also be cathartic. Forgiveness is seen by far too many, as a sign of weakness, however revenge can usher a primordial purifying, and release. The deliberate withholding of forgiveness like war is not always a bad thing.